
This Valentine's Day, I choose me
No waiting to be chosen.
No proving my worth.
No earning love through sacrifice.
Just a quiet, powerful decision to come home to myself.
If Valentine’s Day feels complicated, heavy, lonely, or triggering for you…
this space was created with you in mind.
Let Me Show You How to Be Your Own Valentine’s Date
For so long, love may have meant:
Overgiving
Shrinking
Second-guessing yourself
Carrying the emotional weight for two
This Valentine’s Day is different.
This time, love looks like:
Choosing yourself without guilt
Learning to feel safe inside your own body
Reconnecting with who you were before the conditioning
Buying the roses for yourself — and finally stopping to smell them
Self-love isn’t selfish.
It’s the foundation everything else is built on.
This Valentine's Day, It Costs Nothing
But It Could Change Everything
The From Narcissist to Self-Love Icon Challenge is a free, five-day live experience designed to help survivors reconnect with themselves — gently, safely, and without pressure.
No cost.
No excuses.
Free to join.
Priceless to heal.
What This Experience is Really About
This is not a “love yourself harder” challenge.
This is about undoing the conditioning that taught you:
Your needs were too much
Your feelings were inconvenient
Love had to be earned
Healing doesn’t wait for perfect timing.
Healing begins the moment you decide you deserve it.
And this Valentine’s Day, you do.
What You'll Experience Over 5 Days
For five days, we’ll come together for live group coaching and learning sessions, designed to help you choose yourself in real, embodied ways.
Each Day Includes:
A live Zoom session, streamed into the community
Live-only Q&A bonus time for those who attend on Zoom
A daily Self-Love Icon Playbook to deepen and integrate the work
These playbooks aren’t just worksheets.
They’re tools to help you:
Rewire how you see yourself
Break the habit of putting yourself last
Rebuild self-trust, clarity, and inner safety
Think of them as love letters back to yourself — practical, grounding, and real.
Live Attendance = Extra Love
Those who attend live on Zoom receive exclusive Q&A time that won’t be covered in the livestream.
This is your private space to:
Ask questions
Share what’s coming up
Receive direct support
You never have to speak.
You never have to perform.
You get to simply be.
Your Valentine's Gift to Yourself
Self-Love Icon Starter Kit (Delivered Valentine’s Morning)
Every person who registers will receive a Self-Love Icon Starter Kit delivered straight to your inbox on Valentine’s morning — the same day the challenge begins.
Inside, you’ll find:
A guided reflection ritual to set loving, grounded intentions
A nervous system reset audio to calm and center
A mini playbook of self-love prompts
A welcome guide so you feel supported from day one
And that’s just the beginning.
There will be surprise Valentine-style bonuses released exclusively for those who register.
This is your invitation to open a gift that reminds you:
You are worthy of love, clarity, and care — especially from yourself.
These bonuses will not be posted in the group.
The Valentine's Finale: Live-Only Masterclass
At the end of the challenge, we’ll gather for a powerful, live-only experience:
No Replay: Healing IS Your Glow Era Masterclass
This is where everything integrates.
A moment to:
Choose yourself fully
Anchor self-love in your body
Step into a glow that doesn’t require anyone else’s validation
There will be no replay.
Not to create pressure —
but to create presence.
This is about being here with you.
Who This Valentine is For
This experience is for you if:
Valentine’s Day brings up grief, confusion, or heaviness
You’ve left a narcissistic relationship and still feel disconnected
You’re still in the relationship and quietly rebuilding yourself
You want self-love without pressure, timelines, or judgment
If you’re still in the relationship, hear this clearly:
You are not excluded.
This challenge isn’t about forcing decisions.
It’s about reconnecting with yourself.
Choosing yourself is the ultimate love story.
This Valentine's Day, Choose You
Petals fall…
but we rise.
Let me show you how to:
Buy the roses for yourself
Stop and smell them
And remember who you were before love came with conditions
Free.
Live.
Supportive.
This Valentine’s Day, it costs nothing —
but it could change everything
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